What Will My Boyfriend Look Like Quiz

We all do it. When we are single and not dating we begin to wonder, what will my boyfriend look like and what will my boyfriend be like. You may even have taken an online, what will my boyfriend look like quiz!  It is fun to wonder what physical attributes your boyfriend will have, will he be dark and smoldering or fair-haired and sexy? What will he be like, will he be intense and interesting or fun loving and lighthearted? Will he be sweet and tender or passionate and vivacious? It is fun to ponder these ideas and think about what qualities we are most attracted to and most compatible with.

You might be reflecting on past relationships and noticing a pattern in personality type or physical type.   Are you always attracted to dark haired lanky men or are you more into solid, blond haired types? Do you tend to go for the brooding poet or the serious, tough guy? Reflecting on and thinking about your dating tendencies and patterns can be a fun and interesting way to consider your past choices and determine if you are making the right ones or creating a relationship blueprint that doesn’t work!

If you decide to take an online, what will my boyfriend be like quiz you may be surprised at the questions you will be asked. This is because the type of guy you are attracted to and that is attracted to you has more to do with YOU than him.   Questions about your interests, your values and your hobbies are a better determiner of what your boyfriend will actually be like, than any wish list that you compile.  Your interest in reading, dancing, art, music, fitness or food are more likely to be avenues for meeting that special someone than a checklist you create in your head. And the focus on you is where it should be! Concentrating on your interests and your personal development will put you in a better place to meet someone special and in a better position to begin a significant relationship.

It is fun to daydream and wonder but it is important to remember that spending too much time worrying about what your boyfriend will look like or be like, may not be the best use of your energy.  Focusing too much on appearance or other superficial attributes can be a recipe for relationship failure. That is, failure to start because you will eliminate men before the relationship can begin and failure to thrive because you are always on the lookout for something else and something “better.”




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